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Phone Sex With Alexis In 2017

Hey there girls and sperms! It’s been a rocking year in 2016, and I’m looking forward to doing it all over again in 2017. I’ve got new projects lined up, more games and assignments for you eager slave boys, and more audio to drown your addictions in. Every month I have events planned out. And some special surprises coming your way to keep your jerking that cock and draining your balls, too!

So get ready for the 2017 lineup! My typical hours for providing live phone sex chat on Niteflirt will be Monday through Friday 10 am eastern or earlier, until 6 pm eastern. And, sometimes weekends.

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JANUARY:

In The Vault Event –Up to 75% off every item on the site, every day, all year long! It’s your one time pass to access audios, tasks, pics and more that are no longer accessible to the general public, at rock bottom prices.

Get the VIP Access, where my live chat line is never more than $1.00 per minute!

NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTION MONTH – It’s time to do those things that you’ve been putting off. I’d like a list of the things that you’ve always wanted to try, or want to personally work on. Over the years on Niteflirt, I have encouraged new experiences and have helped to inspire those with their personal goals. From losing weight, masturbation techniques, enhancing fun with their partner, or simply learning to just have more fun! So, what is it this year that you’d like to try or do? Call me or send me an email through Niteflirt, and let’s make it happen!

HUMILIATION DAY – It’s not what you think. But then again, you are reading My blog. Since I like to put a spin on anything that I can, this is the perfect opportunity to do just that! If you’re into being humiliated, let’s see just how extreme you can get!

MALE WATCHER’S DAY – Men love gawking at sexy women. Well, it’s time to watch those men doing what they do best! Either have Me watch you on call during our call, or take pictures of yourself while your hard at work, and staying hard while doing it! OR, you could always discreetly take some pictures on your cell phone, of some sexy studs with big cocks – at work, the mall, gas station, or from anywhere else! (Faces and personal identifying marks will be edited before I post them to the blog or on Twitter.) Hint – What woman doesn’t love a man in a suit, and having him strip it off for her?

FRIDAY THE 13TH – A new assignment or audio available. Check out other offers here.

DRESS UP YOUR PET DAY – This is a special day for My slaves, sluts, and pets. Dress yourself up as a dog for Me, and take a pic!

NATIONAL NOTHING DAY – Pay a drive-by tribute, or call My ignore line to celebrate!

FUN AT WORK DAY – What kind of kinky can you get into at work? let’s find out!

FEBRUARY:

MY BIRTHDAY – February 1st, is My birthday. Spoil Me, and show Me some love!

AMAZONWishlist containing products that I’d want, and that are needed to keep the cocks rocking.

GIFT CARDSA list of a few gift cards that I’ve used, and love.

DELL COMPUTER GIFT CARDSTo keep my computer software and contracts updated, cranking out the good stuff, and pumping out the podcasts.

MUSICIAN’S FRIENDWhere I purchase some of my Recording gear, and musical related items for audio projects.

GUITAR CENTER – Where I purchase some of my recording equipment.

Annual Slave Bonding Ceremonies. Bonding ceremonies in progress.

CANNED FOOD MONTH – You have two ways to play. Donate canned goods to the local food bank. Or, humiliate yourself by either eating a can of cat or dog food for Me!

NATIONAL PIE MONTH – You’ve seen the movie American Pie. Who could forget the following scene? It’s your turn!

DON’T CRY OVER SPILLED MILK DAY – How long can you hold out from blowing that load? I might bring you to tears!

VALENTINE’S DAY – Love letters, poems, or fantasies welcome! Submit your original ideas t Me, and I’ll add it to My next podcast!

MARCH:

NATIONAL PEANUT MONTH –It’s time for some CEI with peanutbutter and jizz jelly sandwiches!

PANIC DAY –It’s time for some blackmail fun!

ST. PATRICK’S DAY –Let’s play some intoxication / drinking games! Ready, set, drink!

EARTH DAY –A great day to be teased and denied! Stroke with me until you can’t take it any longer. Then expect to turn off the lights, phone, computer, and anything else that you have that gives you internet access or a one on one way to communicate. Then you’ll be calling back – so get ready to jack – it off!

APRIL:

APRIL FOOLS FOR ALEXIS – Time has come once again to start sending in those humiliating videos to Me, for public posting on My Youtube channel. Hide your identity, cover your face with a mask – or not. Due to Youtube’s TOS, NO genitals, no scat or watersports, no bestiality, or doing things to other people against their will. Get it? Got it? Good. If you need some ideas, then you know where to find Me.

GO FOR BROKE DAY –It’s time to do a drive by tribue, max out the credit cards, and drain every dollar in your account – right into Mine!

DRAW A PICTURE OF A BIRD DAY –Put your pecker on a piece of paper, and trace it with a marker. Take a picture and send Me it. I’ll be happy to post the pic!

MY NITEFLIRT ANNIVERSARY – I can’t believe that it’s been 10 years! Since the traditional and modern gift giving items are diamonds you’ll find a suitable wishlist here, for your convenience. call Me and let’s celebrate together!

MAY:

MASTURBATION MONTH – It’s National Masturbation Month! Time for some JOI (jerk off instructions). If mental stimulation is your game, prepare for me to blow your mind, as your blow your load! I’ll show you how to rock that cock.

JUNE:

DAIRY MONTH –Ice cream, chocolate milk, and grilled cheese – all with a load, please! That’s what you’ll be saying once We start playing some tasty CEI games!

DARE DAY – Do something different – I dare you! Call Me for some frisky, risky fun!

DOUGHNUT DAY – Grab your favorite doughnut and your cock. You know where I’m going with this! Be sure to lick up every last drop of that glaze, baby! OR – get ready to be turned into a glazed doughnut. Open wide for some cock sucking action!

FRESH FRUIT AND VEGETABLES EVERY DAY – Celebrate the whole month with fresh fruit and veggies. One way or another, you’re going to make additional use out of your favorite cucumber, cantaloupe, or corn on the cob. Let’s not forget the kiwi and lemon for those CBT wankers!

PINK DAY IN JUNE –A special day for pink panties for sissies, crossdressers, and humiliated gluttons!

JULY:

RED, WHITE, AND BLUE EVENT – Once again, it’s all about the red, white, and blue! Time for red spanked asses, white spunk, and blue balls? Wear those patriotic panties, grab a cock cage, get out your favorite sex toy, and let’s have some fun!

HOT DOG MONTH – Finding creative ways to use those weiners!

NATIONAL BIKINI DAY –< Fun in and out of sun, with those bikinis on your bum! Get your girlfriend’s, wife’s, or yours’ and call Me!

AUGUST:

HOT ASS SUMMER EVENT ON NITEFLIRT – Grab the vibrators, butt plugs, anal beads, and even that cucumber that you were about to have for lunch. It’s time to work that prostate, your masturbation techniques, and your sexual health. Read My post on the benefits, and the warnings for prostate messaging, here.

SEPTEMBER:

BACON DAY – Time for the piggies to start paying and playing!

MAKE YOUR BED DAY –More like make a mess in your bed day! If you have a wife or girlfriend, you’ll be jacking off with Me in your bed, and leaving your load on her pillowcase.

CUMSTITUTION –We’ve all heard of the Constitution of America. Well once again, I have put a spin on it and made one of My own. I’ve created the Cumstitution of Alexis! Comment at the bottom of that page to take the pledge today!

OCTOBER:

THE HALLOWEEN HUMILIATION EVENT – More assignments and tasks than you can shake your halloweenie at this year! Stay tuned for special offers, Halloween tasks, and more!

NOVEMBER:

DEVILED EGG DAY – For you CBT enthusiasts that want to devil those eggs between your legs! Creative ways of ball busting coming to you!

HOUSEWIFE’S DAY –Put on your panties and aprons, girls! I’m going turn you into My personal housewife. Cook, clean, and turn you into My love making machine!

CLEAN YOUR REFRIDGERATOR DAY –For those food fetishists, today is the day that YOU get to put those leftovers to good use!

THANKSGIVING EVENT –I can bet that your cock is grateful to cum. Your ass might be grateful to wear those panties. You might even be grateful to be getting fucked like a dirty slut! What are YOU grateful for?

DECEMBER:

CHRISTMAS EVENT –And in December, I’ll be making merry with Christmas fun, holiday cheer, and announcements for the new year of 2017!

“You only have one life to live. Enjoy the ride!”

Fetish Balls and Other Events

Faetish Events

Already this year, many Balls and Events have taken place, but there is still plenty of time, and good ‘excuses’ coming up. I know that it takes balls to go to a ball. But, just remember everyone is there to have fun, just like you. And i’m sure that every time an event happens, there is a virgin in the crowd besides you the first time. Of course if you are in a relationship, you might not have the luxury of bringing your partner with you. One day…

However, if you have the opportunity to attend, then bring them, a female friend, or an escort. It can be an excellent way to meet other like minded people, learn something, and even experience it for yourself – the things that you’ve only thought about.

In addition to fetish balls, there are many other event types of for adults, listed. If you happen to know of any specific events coming up, and know the location, please feel free to post the information in the comment section below. Please include place, website, time, dates, and any other helpful information about the event that you can provide. This is a social network, not only a blog and my online journal. So, posting things like this, makes the meaning of being social, mean more than just virtual…

Just remember that there are limits and rules to abide by. We talk about a lot kinks and fetishes, romantic stories, and erotic fantasies. We exaggerate your fantasies on sometimes unbelievable levels. It can be a wild ride, even in your mind. But, actually being there is bringing all the fun of an awesome gala event, is something to experience if only once in your life. There are many events, more often than you probably realize,throughout the entire year. Those fantasies are of yours’ could be transformed into magical reality. Be prepared…

Here is a long list of various Fetish Balls, and events:

Cleveland Ohio Organ Grinder’s Ball 18
April 20, 2013:
http://www.fetishplayland.com/

Toranto Canada Fetish ball:
SUBSPACE Winter Fetish Ball

Fort Launderdale Fetish party event list:

http://www.thefetishparty.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=Content.Events
http://www.exit66fl.com/
Last year’s event site: http://www.fetish-factory.com/_cf/alterego/halloween/2012/overview.html

Fashion Fetish ball Miami 2013:
http://vongutenbergfetishball.com/

Colorado fetish ball:
Last year held at http://thediamondcabaret.com/

http://victorianeroticaball.com/venue-victorian-erotica-ball-halloween-denver-co-2012/
Watch for 2013 announcement

Other Events
Salt Lake City, Utah: (more like a dance club, and I have not found any videos for their fetish nights. If you have one, or know of where one is, please comment with the link, thanks!)
http://area51slc.com/fetish-balls-last-saturday-of-every-month/

Rhode Island Leather Event:
http://www.northeastleather.com/home.html

Minneapolis, Minnesota
Rubber Doll World Rendezvous
http://www.rubberdollworldrendezvous.com/
https://www.facebook.com/rubberdollworldrendezvous
http://www.citypages.com/2012-02-08/news/the-twin-cities-fetish-scene-unbridled/

Oklahoma
Biting the Apple 2013 April 19 2013
http://www.ticketstorm.com/event/bitingtheapple2013plush/iaogallery/oklahomacity/10789/
https://www.facebook.com/events/341006396001052/

Chicago Illinoise
April 20 2013:
http://mistressxena-chicago.wix.com/bnc#!bio
May 24-27 2013
http://www.shibaricon.com/index.html

Pennsylvania Fetish Club:
http://www.diaboliquephilly.com/

Iowa Event:
http://mischiefinmay.com/
http://desmoines.gaycities.com/events/163789-mr-iowa-leather-2013-iowa-leather-weekend

Conneticut
Queer Your kink May 20-22 2013
http://www.queerplaycon.com/timegrid.html

Kansas:
May 31-June3 2013
http://www.kinkykarnivalks.com/

Midwest Adu;t Community:
https://www.twistedtryst.com/

New Orleans, Louisana event:
June 7-9, 2013
http://www.lsrubber.net/gcg.html

Alaska Adult Lifestyle:
http://www.northernexposurealaska.com/

Piscataway, New Jersey Event
July 4-7 2013
http://www.tesfest.org/

Atlantic City Swingers Club (bring escort)
http://www.rollplaylounge.com/

Contracts, Cuckies, and Cum Sluts oh my

2013_why

Happy New Year! How awesome it is to rock the new year in with you! Over the last few days, there has been a increase in Contract signing, audio purchases, and VIP sign ups! I’m really glad to know that you’ll be joining me for another year of fun, fantasies, and reality playtime. 2013, is going to be a blast!

New Contracts Signed: 12 (5 Blackmail Contracts and 7 Chastity Love Contracts)

VIP Member Sign Ups: 5 (Bonus pic packs, and a $1.00 or less per min phone line – for life)

Thank you so much for the returned Christmas and New Year wishes and presents, updated feedback, and the last of the orgasms for 2012! Now, we have 2013 to make blue balls bigger, cocks harder, and my pussy satisifed…. ready?

Those looking for assignments, this is the place to be, and the post that you want to read.

List of Jobs (that last all year through)

1.Assignment 1:  Get paid to promote Me. That’s right! For every new member that you encourage to call Me, or purchase my MP3s, you get a bonus after they spend $50 on NiteFlirt within 90 days of joining. They can spend that $50 in any combination of ways – on calls, pay to views, or tributes. Once you join the NF Affiliate program, then you can go to the page provided for you with links and button codes. You can take any of those affiliate codes, and post them to different places where you can advertise for me.  Once you join, you’ll have access to a page that shows you your affiliate code. Right below that, you will find a link that says, “Want to promote another Flirt? Click here!” , and in order to get specific code for Me, just type in my NF member name, Alexis4u. Where to promote:

A. You can create a free blog on Blogger.com. The platform is free, run by Google, allows the freedom of posting, and gets really good traffic!

2. Assignment 2: Start a Twitter account, if you don’t already have one. It is not necessary to add your phone number to the site, but by creating the free account, you can post ‘tweets’ or messeges. Be sure to add me as a hashtag (like this #Alexis4uNF), ro just mention my Twitter name, @Alexis4uNF. Use your twitter account to promote that blogger website that you might have created, ir any other website that you might have and are using to promote me. NOTE: If you really want to make even more money, you could promote ANY of the Flirts on NF the same way. You’ll be able to use the money that you earned from the Affiliate program on the NF site to make calls, or buy cool pay to views. try hard enough, and with the effort for you earn yourself a nice chunk of change!

3. Assignment 3: Join social networks! Facebook, FetLife, and other adult platforms that let you ad links, and post about me, and link it to my blog here.

4. Assignment 4: Look up free adult classified ads in Google. Read the Terms and Conditions, and post an ad for Me, to this blog. Of I’ve posted about you, you can link to that post for some additional exposure!.

5. Assignment 5: Buy a domain and start promoting the NF site. This is a rather long explanation, but the details are important, and if you plan on trying to make some extra phone sex cash, you’ll want to read the following. if this is not an interest, then move onto the next assignment.  Still with me? Then, once you have joined the NF Affiliate program, you will also notice banners that NF will provide to you, where you can copy the code, and post them on your site. Need help designing it? Just let me know, and I’ll help you out with some basics. A domain can cost up to $10. However, with promo codes from Godaddy, it could be as low as a $1.00 depending in what promotions are running. I would not suggest to purchase website hosting through them, though. Only reason, is that there are cheaper alternatives, and you’ll want to be able to access all of your files, and keep them. If your domain registration runs out (which is within one year of the purchase date), and you forget to renew, you will lose out on all of you files. This could benefit those of you that are not able to store naughty things on your computer ;) You can store those MP3s or hot pics on the web hosting site, and keep your computer ‘clean’. Here’s where to get a domain, with a discount:

Go Daddy Deal of the Week: 35% off your first order on GoDaddy.com! Offer expires 1/3/13.

 

When you want to start designing the website, you can either 1) Use the new domain name that you have, and have it directed to your site. (you can use Blogger, as your platform if you’d like. They offer that as an option for a small price. If you need any help with this, just send me an email, and i’ll be glad to help you out.

If you are planning to have your new domain hosted through a web hosting company, I would highly suggest that you use a company that is located within the United States. From my past experience, i have noticed a difference in my websites (traffic, security, and how the sites are indexed on search engines such as Google.

Post the link in chat rooms. if you’re already there looking for some text stimulation, or seeking people that will play with you, then why not post your affiliate link, and maybe catch a newbies to Niteflirt. I’ve done this myself, and I will tell you that it’s not always easy finding people who haven’t seen or know of NF. But, for whatever reason, maybe they just haven’t joined. Might be worth sharing your link. The link is actually the first one that you see on your affilaite page., under ” Refer your friends to NiteFlirt by using your referral link:”. Copy it, paste it, and go!

If you choose to create a blog, then I’ll also suggest that you use it to your advantage. if you are a writer, start writing some hot, sexy stories. People love to read. When I find a playmate’s blog, and they are writing about erotic dreams, or real time experience, it helps me to get to know them better. The more that you wrote, the more that you get picked up on search engines, which with those banners, could make you some moolah! Don’t steal stories or pics from the internet or you will lose your blog, or see a lawsuit. if you need pics to put on your site, I will be creating an RSS feed for pics. You can use the RSS feed to add to your site, and keep the pics fresh on your site. If you don;t know how to do that, I’ll show you how when it’s available. However, there is nothing wrong with asking your favorite Flirts for a pic of them, if you tell them why you;d like to have it. They most likely will want to watermark their pic somehow. Not everyone will want to hand over a pic, but don’t take it personally. It’s a personal choice for them, and most likely has nothing to do with you. However, with that being said, i will say that when someone comes to me, has never spent a minute on the phone with me, nor bought so much as a pic set for $5.00, I have the tendency of giving them what they have given me – nothing.

6.  Assignment 6: I want writing slaves. I want sexual stories that come from YOUR imagination, or personal experiences, that I can add to my blog. Please note that I will check to make sure that the material is original, so that I do not siffer the consequences from posting someone else’s writings.  I’ve done this before for a MP3 challenge two years ago, and it worked out excellent! Writers received free minutes, a free MP3, or exclusive discounts.

7. Assignment 7: Start leaving your comments on this blog! Every time that you sign in, fill out your profile (and i want your birth date included), leave a comment, vote on one of my Polls on the bottom of the sidebar – you earn points! Remember what i said about the Hollar dDollars? The more points that you earn, the more that you can redeem them for discounts! You could even get yourself an free VIP Membership, and get access to the lowest rate when calling me live. Earn extra additional reward points by letting me interview you (details provided below)

How Points Can Be Used: (another reason why it was important that you use your NF Member name when you registered. Rewards will not be given to you until you request your reward, and exchange them for your reward. The scale is higher than it was previously on Flirotica, but that is because I provide with many opportunities to earn those points, and they can add up very quickly!)

a. 1000 points = 3 free pics, of my choosing.

b. 2000 points = one 5 free minute offer.

c. 4000 points = two 5 free minute offers.

d, 5000 points = a free 10 minute MP3

e. 10000 points = free access to the VIP line

Once you have earned your points to redeem these offers, your points will be removed, and you can start earning more points for additional exclusive offers. If you choose, you may redeem your points for the same offer more than once. VIP access can only be redeemed once, obviously.  VIP Members will be able to redeem their points for additional exclusive discounts.  Let’s be fair here – ALL Members who have not previously purchased any pay to views, nor placed calls with me, will not be eligible for reward offers.

8. Assignment 8: Join the Alexis Army. Be all that you can be! You will either permit to take a cam shot of you holding up the sign, or will be taking a pic of yourself with the sign and sending it to me. The sign must be able to be read, and say, “I Joined the Alexis Army“. This is a display of devotion, and will be incorporated into a finalized project to be released during February 2013. I do not need face shots. However, i would prefer that when taking the picture, that you are wearing pantiesit’s a symbolic gesture of you being my slut.

9 Assignment 9:  Committing to the Chastity Love Contract. For me, chastity is not used as punishment, but a devotional device of submission of your orgasm, and sexual control. I own your cock, balls, and orgasm.  There will rewards given based upon several facotrs, which not be mentioned here, and I know there are cheaters, and I want this to be as successful as possible, as well as fair.

10. Assignment 10: Public Humiliation. If you enjoy subtle or extreme public humiiation, then you’ll have enough to keep you busy all year. Recently, i noticed a trend in humiliation gluttons that have been purchasing my Calendars. Granted, these are not from 2012, nor will there will be new ones created. Why? Because there are enough assignments, both private and public, that will keep you busy every day of the year. You can repeat these assignments as often as you’d like. BUT, in order to make the assignments complete, I require pics from you doing the assignment, or you can do them for me while you call me live.

11. Assignment 11: Remembering special occasions, and doing something to celebrate. There are enough holidays and other special days that you can do your part to make it extra special. (New years Eve, new years Day, My Birthday, My NF Anniversay, the First time that you called me, the day that you lost your virginity, the day that you started your Contract with me, the day that you became a cuckold, a money slave, etc. The point is, there is always a day where you can surprise me.) With what? Pics, presents, tributes, and phone calls.

12. Assignment 12: Taking over the  responsibility for one of My needs. If you want to just simply contribute

13. Assignment 13:  Leaving Niteflirt Feedback. Beginning this year, I will be looking at my NF feedback, and members of this blog who have left their reviews from calls, pay to views, tributes, anything – will earn additional reward points to redeem for exclusive offers.

Well there’s 13 on going assignments for you, to keep you occupied throughout the whole 2013 year! I sent out an email  December 31st, to wish you all a safe and happy Holiday, and best wishes for this year. I hope that you and you find this to be the most prosperous, successful, and exciting one yet! However, there is no doubt that what will happen, can happen. So, expect the unexpected, accept what comes with the things that you cannot change, and bring your kiny, wild, sexy, provocative behind right here… because possibly the best thing that you’ll  have going for you – will always be me ;)